So, I think I’m having a mid mid-life crisis. Well, I guess it could be a ‘mid-life’ crisis, considering the current life expectancy in Glasgow is 71. This year I will be 30, so maybe I am half way through life. But since I’m having a crisis here, I’ll stick to the mid mid-life crisis, I can’t handle thinking about my own mortality right now.

Like most other problems, I’m going to blame devil child Jess for this. There’s nothing quite like ramming a child out your body then plunging face first into a concrete wall of responsibilities to change your every fiber as a person. Body image included. Pretty sure Jess pushed my skin to it’s absolute limit knowing fine well it would never bounce back to it’s original, somewhat taught (purely based on post baby), shape. As if it wasn’t enough to give me some squashy new baby seats on my hips, she also stuck her tiny little nails in my skin and ripped beautiful stretch marks along the hip cushions and, randomly, one inner thigh. Don’t try to convince me this isn’t how you get stretch  marks – I saw the skin under her nails!

Body changes as side, who am I? Where is Kirsty? Have I become just a ‘mum’? What am I doing with my life? What is my DESTINY?! – I joke….

You see, I must be having a mid mid-life crisis? You need more evidence? Righty-oh

Exhibit A – Piercing holes in my body

To be fair, I had been thinking about this one for a long time, even before monster child. So I done it, I got my right helix pierced! Not only that, I went with my lover (my sis-in-law, we are best of buddies) and we got matching piercings. Yes, matching. Because we are cool and you are not, so don’t be jealous. We also have matching names (that’s another story for another time. I do worry about my brother). Now I am super cool and hip with my new trendy piercing (think it was trendy about 10 years ago). My 15 year old niece was only too quick to point out how lame her cool aunt and loser mum are. Whatever, I’m not a regular mom, I’m a cool mom.

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She is obviously just jealous that she cannot be as awesome as her 29 year old aunt.

I’m going back for a double helix, once my ear has healed. My body isn’t as resilient as it used to be (it’s been 3 weeks!!). I am super keen and excited to start buying lots of ‘hip’ rose gold earrings, the smaller the better. I want two tiny rose gold hoops for my double helix. Apparently all the kids are wearing them (and rose gold), you can get fake clip on helix earrings in Topshop, I obviously started that trend. I’m not trying to keep up with the kids, I’m too cool for that…

Exhibit A.1 – My niece has some how convinced her parents to consent to her nose getting pierced. Ehhh, hello? If a teenager is getting piercings then I must still be (never was) cool? #coolasfudge 

Exhibit B – Attire

This isn’t all my doing, the clothes shops are filled with teen approved clothing – another way to look at this is I’m still desperately clinging to my youth by shopping in these stores and it’s about high time I moved onto supermarket clothing, get me some attire that covers my poor cold ankles.

I can’t do that, please don’t make me. So I rock about in , ankle grazing, high-waisted, knee exposing, but surprisingly comfortable skinny jeans. I’m not sure about the teens in your area but mine? They all strut about in skinny jeans that go up to their rib cage, paired with a shrunk (crop) top that exposes their (stupid) flat mid rifts. I don’t do the crop tops (that’s a lie, I have one or two and I wear a vest under to hide my skin. Jeezo, I’m so old ‘hide my skin’ – it’s so I don’t get cold and I’m considerably more wobbley that a 13 year old) but I have started wearing ‘floaty’ tops with my skinny jeans. Are they cool? You know, like the over sized T-shirts. #checkamericaneagle #imascoolasthosechicks

Wait it gets better.

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I pair the ripped, skinny jeans with high top trainers. Usually, I run new clothing items past Dave, he is actually a very good fashion guru. I told him I was thinking about buying high top Converse (my first pair ever!) and his reply was something along the lines of -‘you are almost 30‘ so I added the shoes straight to the basket and swiftly added in my bank details. Almost 30 indeed. I’ll show him! I love them! Dave likes them too (in yo face boy!). My nieces like them too, in fact they always comment that they like my clothes…they are aged 9, 10 and 15…….I’m down with the kids aren’t I? I am having some kind of mid mid-life crisis. They aren’t meant to like what their 29 year old aunt is wearing. Oh no. What a mess.

After seeing this all down in writing, I have come to the conclusion that, indeed, I am having some from of crisis. Although, not too much that I actually care or I’ll change. Soon enough the cool kids will make skinny ripped jeans obsolete and I’ll still be wearing them, coz bitches don’t be wasting money on clothes to stop wearing them when they aren’t cool (I have 10 year old Adidas superstars in my wardrobe that my niece would love because they are back in fashion). Maybe I should change? Maybe it’s time to cut my ties with everything from my teen years, maybe I should start wearing ‘comfortable’ shoes that provide arch support. Maybe I should buy high quality linen trousers that don’t expose my knees to the elements and prove adequate length to engulf my (baltic) ankles in fabric . Maybe then I can wear real socks and not those annoying stupid quarter socks that come off your feet as soon as you move, migrating to the front of your shoe, filling you with rage! But, ehhhhhh hello!, how cool (f’ing cold) do I look in my Nintendo vans and skinny ankle grazers? *flicks hair*

Maybe, maybe not. I’m not old. Don’t tell me I am! I’m fine, I’m not having a crisis, you are!

*turns away in a huff, sticking earphones in and listens to Nicki Taylor singing ‘oh na na whats my name’ whilst downloading a Keeping up with Kim and her Family, sipping on my Costabucks.

12 thoughts on “Mid Mid-life crisis

  1. Okay I get it. It is all a coming of age thing. I will say one thing I disagree with “you are never ans I say never too old for a grand pair of Chrucka Taylor’s”. I own a pair, and wear them at 43. Here on West Coast they are a noted fashion icon for ALL ages. Chucks are some of the best kicks around! Now that being said, I had a nose hoop, and just took it out one year ago. I got it about 35 years of age. As well as my first tatoo in my 30’s. You know you think you can’t go wrong as you know who you are by then, right?! Well I have a tribal cross on my back(beautiful no regrets). Now the other, I look at with disgust especially as I am a sporty gal, and summer is fast approaching. Short sleeves, ouch! Who can say they are as cool to have in heavy blk/red lettering from the top of their right arm just above the elbow their ex’husbands name of 18 years? It is not even a good tattoo. His name is Britton, and people always ask what does Gritton mean? Oh come on. $500 to remove it too. I don’t want a cover up. I have decided I don’t want a half sleeve when I am 60 something, and my skin begins to sag. Gritton does mean getting down to business in the urban dictionary(ha). Then I get those who are like oh, you love the country? Um, Hello it is not Britain, it is Britton. Come on, it is so crappy. They say never get another’s name put on your body, it will only be 6 months to a year that it will last. Well I was at 17(what could go wrong), and at 18 name branded down my arm it was all said and done. As far as clothes. I get it, my daughter is 20, I am a small gal. So I can shop in the juniors, and don’t want to be shopping in the Mrs. dept(yet). It is like that stage when you are pregnant, but don’t look it yet. Fine like right! So I myself have stuck with sporty yet, 40ish. Without looking too young, or old. I am so glad I have done away with my nose hoop. That was refreshing for me anyways. We change, and we got through odd times. Great post, love the humor in your writing. I bet the Chucks looked perfect too! πŸ‘ŸπŸ˜‰

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    1. You know, I have been completely converted to Chucks (I like this much better than high tops) and I WILL be purchasing more. They are super comfy. In the UK they are on ‘trend’, well all trainers are right now. I don’t care, I’m buying them all.
      For a fleeting second I thought about a nose piercing, I don’t think I could go through with it! I’m not so brave. I love the story about your tattoo, the way you tell it made me laugh. you would think after 18 years it’s a done and dusted deal! $500?! Ouch! No deal! I reckon you could rock a sleeve tattoo even at 60! Again, I’m not brave enough for a tattoo, maybe one day. Like you said we change, so maybe when I hit the dreaded 3.0 I’ll need to shake off the cob webs and get inked πŸ™‚

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      1. I went with a friend to get her nipple pierced and remember thinking how painful that would be. But you know, after breastfeeding I have nipples of steel! The pain receptors are numb in there, I’m sure of it. They have even been stamped on and I didn’t flinch (I wish that wasn’t true).

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  2. It’s totally ok to have this mid mid life crisis. I think you’ve done well in handling it haha. I just ordered a new pair of shoes myself, though they are far from trendy. I don’t know what’s trendy now except that chokers are back. Never thought I’d see those come back lol

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